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No Child Should Live or Die Alone
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"I must have been bad or they wouldn't have sold me."
Child prostitute |
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"The drugs and alcohol don't take away the pain, the fear.
Memories of my family keep coming back. I have nothing to live
for; I wish I could be killed by a commando."
10-year old child soldier |
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"My dream is to have education, then I will be able to take care
of my brothers and sisters. I would like them to have education
too."
15-year old AIDS orphan and family care giver. |
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Goals For The Children |
Words or statistics cannot adequately capture the human tragedy of
the children...lost, abandoned, sick, ignored and grieving
for deceased loved ones.
TB, pneumonia, or even common childhood diseases can be too
much for an extended family to bear...so... the child
becomes homeless and alone on the streets...stigmatized by
society through their association with HIV/AIDS.
Whatever the reason - the results are the same. These
children are always left alone.
Children have to care for children and they struggle without
services or a support system of any kind. They live,
unprotected, in impoverished communities surrounded by
violence and despair.
After ten years of work, experimentation, volunteerism,
civic pride and care,
the Sparrow Village concept became a
reality.

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You will be able to adopt a child's medical expenses for a few
pennies a day.
You will not save most of these children.
You
can
give these babies a painless, joy filled, warm and caring last
few
months.
A dignity in dying. A loving death.
No Child Should Die Alone |
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Nomsa
was found near death. She had been clinging to her mother,
who had died four days before they were found. With care and
medicine, Nomsa lived her last days surrounded by love, warmth
and smiles.
Without the safety of Sparrow, Nomsa would have been either on
the streets or in a hospital waiting to die alone, in pain and
in fear.
"We can make a difference!"
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Caring for Parents |
Prevention and treatment of infections can prolong the life
of the infected parent and allows them to care for their
children as they prepare them and themselves for the end. By
caring for the family we can postpone the age at which
children are orphaned, and let them know they are loved and
will be cared for by others.
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Preparing families for transition |
Parents must be supported as they plan the best possible
future for their children. Steps include planning for
guardians and giving clear instructions about the children's
future. Families need counseling to understand their
feelings of anxiety and vulnerability and economic support
to overcome the loss of income due to illness.
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Ensuring the children's future |
Access to education and life skills is the basis for
enabling children to attain a better livelihood. Young
people are more likely to become vulnerable to missing
school days because they are caring for their sick families.
At Sparrow we help take care of the families and make sure
that all children, even the very sick attend school everyday
... for as long as they can. It adds to the quality of their
lives and prepares them for the possibility of a cure.
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The following stories are of children that need your support.
Some are very sick and need medicine to take away the pain and
allow them to get out of bed. Some just need to know they are
loved. These stories and pictures will be periodically updated
in hopes that you will find a child to support.
Please
pray
for these wonderful
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Abongile
is now 5 years old and has a happy "glint" in her eye all
the time. She loves going to school and is a very precious
little girl. Abongile really knows how to live each moment
to the fullest!
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Ernest
is 3 years old. He came to us very sick and weak. With
treatment he is doing well and everyone is enjoying his
sweet personality.
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Nomathemba
is 8 years old. She has been very ill and in hospice. This
sweet faced child was released recently and is so happy to
be back with her loving housemother, Gugu and her many
friends. She is now in first grade and doing fabulously.
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Phindile
is almost three years old. A sweeter face is hard to find.
She loves playing hide and seek and peek-a-boo with anyone
who is willing. Her laugh is very joyful and full of love.
She is now walking and exploring everything in her path.
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Pule
lost his mother and twin brother to AIDS. Pule weighed only
three pounds when he was brought to the hospice at age two.
He has been very ill in the past, but has surprised the
staff by his determination to always get better. One of the
adult female patients at the hospice 'adopted' Pule. They
were very attached to one another, but she recently passed
away...leaving Pule alone looking for warm arms and love.
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Sylvia
is 8 years old. She loves school and enjoys being with her
friends. Her best friend is Nomathemba. Her favorite things
to eat are yogurt and of course ... chocolate.
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Thato
is 7 years old. This wide eyed little boy is in the hospice
at the moment. He is struggling with a very bad chest
infection and a severe heart problem - yet he always has a
great smile on his face. We have nicknamed him 'Nelson
Mandela' because of his giving spirit- he is very proud of
his new name.
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Thuli
is a 5 year old little girl. A sweet child who will inform
you her name is Thuli with great authority. She is a
delightful, funny little girl.
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36.1 million adults and children are now living with HIV/AIDS.
1.4 million children under 15 years are HIV+.
By 2010 there will be 44.2 million orphans (not just AIDS) in
the world.
By 2010 we expect to see close to 40 million orphans in Africa
alone.
In 1990, about 16% of the world's orphans lost one or both
parents to AIDS.
In 2010, about 70% of the world's orphans will loose one or both
parents to AIDS.
Sources: Children on the Brink (USAID 2000), Displaced Children
and Orphans Fund (USAID 2001), AIDS Epidemic Update (UNAIDS
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"Gauge a country’s humanity by the treatment of it's children."
Carol Conley Ruggie |
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Are we part of a civilized world ...

...if we can stand by
and let these children die alone? |
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©Sparrow Village Project copyrighted 2003 by Carol Conley
Ruggie |